How does the TOST expression of interest work?

The TOST button is an expression of interest. When you select TOST on a curated profile, a private notification is sent. Contact details remain completely protected until both members mutually confirm WhatsApp contact sharing.

What is the Re-Tost option in Elite membership?

If following the introductory Zoom call either member feels the connection is not aligned, they can select Re-Tost. Personal contacts remain protected, the previous introduction is formally closed, and TOST curates the next eligible match.

WELCOME TO TOSTNigeria & Diaspora

Where Intentional Singles Find Intentional Love.

Meaningful relationships begin with intentional connections. TOST brings together mature singles who are ready to explore genuine companionship and build relationships with purpose.

Strict Age Eligibility (27–60 M · 22–47 W)

Mutual Consent Contact Release

Mature Nigerian couple sharing a joyful, intentional connection

“We create rooms where you can connect with the most authentic people that bring the needed spark in your life.”

TOST Matchmaking Community

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Curated Atmosphere: Designed for intentional conversations that lead to lifelong companionship.

About TOST

More Than a Connection. A Relationship With Purpose.

TOST is a premium matchmaking community created for mature and intentional singles who value meaningful relationships. We provide a structured environment where individuals can discover compatible people, express interest and explore the possibility of building lasting relationships.

“Premium connections that last. We create rooms where you can connect with the most authentic people that bring the needed spark in your life.”

Maturity First: Every member on TOST is here with clear intentionality, valuing emotional readiness, mutual respect, and family vision.

Privacy Preserved: Contact information is never exposed publicly. Mutual interest and explicit consent are required before any details are released.

Community Standards

Who Can Join TOST?

TOST is designed for mature singles who are intentional about finding a meaningful relationship. Every introduction is guided by compatibility and individual preferences.

Eligibility Criteria

For Men

27–60 years

Open to mature, accomplished gentlemen who are emotionally ready, value marriage, and possess clarity of purpose. Underage applicants are strictly barred.

Verified identity and professional standing

Intentional relationship objectives

Eligibility Criteria

For Women

22–47 years

Open to intentional, graceful women seeking an authentic partner for long-term commitment and shared vision. Underage applicants are strictly barred.

Genuine interest in purposeful partnership

Preference-aligned compatibility introductions

Intentional Pairing Discipline: Members are matched within compatible age brackets based on mutual stated preferences—never indiscriminately across the full age spread. Both parties' individual criteria must mutually align before an introduction is curated.

The TOST Distinction

Why Intentional Singles Choose TOST

We provide a structured environment rooted in discretion, emotional maturity, and genuine human connection.

01.

Intentional Connections

A space designed specifically for people who are genuinely interested in meaningful relationships, not casual encounters or passive swiping.

02.

Preference-Led Matching

Discover individuals based on your stated preferences, values, location readiness, and shared relationship expectations.

03.

A More Personal Experience

Choose a membership experience that suits your expectations, from curated self-guided introductions to fully personalised matchmaking.

04.

Privacy and Choice

Your personal information and contact details remain private until the appropriate consent and connection steps are completed by both members.

The Process

How TOST Works

A purposeful, four-step journey designed to transition you from intention to genuine companionship.

Create Your Profile

Complete your registration honestly. We verify age eligibility and safeguard your legal identity.

Tell Us Your Preferences

Let TOST understand the kind of partner you wish to meet—values, faith, location, and life expectations.

Discover Your Matches

Explore curated profiles strictly aligned with mutual preferences, free from mindless public swiping.

Make a Connection

Express interest with the TOST button. Connect directly or schedule an icebreaker Zoom call upon mutual consent.

Membership Plans

Invest in Intentional Love

Choose a tier that mirrors your expectations. All introductions are guided by compatibility and mutual consent.

Plan One1 Month Validity

DELUXE

Discover Your Connections

₦35,000

Per month · Full curated access

Access to full profiles of approximately three curated matches

View permitted profile information within Deluxe tier

Express interest directly through the TOST button

Direct WhatsApp connection upon mutual acceptance

One-month membership validity

Privacy Restriction: Deluxe members do not see whether another member has been married before or has children.

Recommended

Plan Two3 Months Validity

ELITE

A More Personalised Matchmaking Experience

“For singles who value a more considered and personalised approach to finding a meaningful connection.”

₦95,000

3 Months full concierge matchmaking

Personalised, high-touch matchmaking experience

Streamlined introduction to one primary recommended match

Option to browse other available eligible profiles

Scheduled Zoom Introduction: Guided icebreaker call before contact exchange

Ability to review proposed match profile and express interest

Re-Tost Guarantee: Request another match if the call does not align

Direct contact access after both parties confirm they wish to proceed

Questions & Answers

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about our standards, discretion, and matchmaking process.

TOST is reserved for mature, intentional singles seeking healthy, long-term relationships that can lead to marriage. Current platform eligibility limits are 27–60 years for men, and 22–47 years for women. Underage registrations are strictly prohibited.

Take The First Step

Your Next Meaningful Connection Could Start Here.

Be intentional about the kind of relationship you want to build.